I don’t want to start this like a life story of every thing have accomplished and not accomplished in the past years of my life. Instead I will just provide you some key points into how I have ended up at this my defining moment of getting out of the navy. Born and raised in California. “Loved it and miss it every day”. Joined the Navy at 18 years old for no better reason then getting out of the house. Left after my schooling for Hawaii where I rode on submarines “don’t ask me why I did that” then at 2 years in I found my self starting to hate the Navy. Other then the friends I had made since I had joined there was nothing in it for me. So after my 4 years where up I got offered orders to work in Washington DC doing some thing called “Network”. Now to all the Geeks in the house like me the word network means some thing completely different then what it doses in the job I was doing in DC. But it was too late, in order to go I had to give them 3 extra years. Wile in DC I meet a girl when I was living in the barracks name Jessica. Now don’t take this the wrong way but she was HOT! Had some problems with her lying but I could deal with that. Until the day she got knocked up. So we planned a wedding (kind of) and just shortly before our wedding she had a miscarriage. Still in love with her I told her it didn’t matter I still loved her and wanted to get married. After living together off and on (needs of the Navy) for a year we had our first son Matthew. BAM! Well how am I to get out and not support my family at this point? I need to care for my Son and Wife so I take need orders that require a school for 9 months on my way to my ship. During that time I was in school Jessica came down to visit and got knocked up again with our second son Ephraim. When Ephraim was 5 months old I left for my first 6 month deployment to serve my country (yeah right) we sat off a stupid coast of a country that was disband like 15 years ago and they still from them self’s to take power of the area. But that is not my biggest disappointment at the time. After 2 months of deployment Jessica got offered a school that would give her 45000 dollars for a reenlistment. So the boys were needlessly shipped off to California with my parent’s house and she started in her school. A month later I stopped getting emails from her and quickly watched 8 thousand dollars drain out of my account a month until there was nothing but a paycheck left by the time I got home. Meet her a new lesbian she did and found “she wasn’t in love with me” she said. (This was 15 months ago)